Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Дарите любовь - Государыня Императрица Александра Федоровна

This is a Russian tiny book and it is one of my favourite books. I was googling for English or Romanian version of this amazing book and I couldn't find it. I bought this book in Yekaterinburg, Russia last year. This pocket book I wear everywhere with me and I can't count how many times I already read it and still love reading it. "Darite Lyubov" is the name of the book and in English would be "Give love".
This book would be a great guide for all young women and not only. This book shows us how a good wife/husband should be. Being a good wife or husband is not easy at all, but this book can help us if we read it regularly. Marriage is beautiful and many of us have lost the way or don't know how to keep it beautiful. Wife and husband should help and love one another and stop pointing who is right and who is not. The key of a long-married couples is PATIENCE and all of us have to keep learning this lesson for the entire life.

Some of my favorite lines:

I am very sorry, but I really can't translate these lines with the main and full meaning of these words and will leave you to translate these lines by choosing your native language. The banner "click to translate" appearing in the upper left corner of my blog or just simply translate with google translate.
Also I found a really good Romanian link about the last Tsar of Russia and his family and I am sure that you will love it, click here for it.

"Смысл брака в том, чтобы приносить радость. Подразумевается, что супружеская жизнь — жизнь самая счастливая, полная, чистая, богатая. Это установление Господа о совершенстве. Божественный замысел поэтому в том, чтобы брак приносил счастье, чтобы он делал жизнь и мужа, и жены более полной, чтобы ни один из них не проиграл, а оба выиграли. Если все же брак не становится счастьем и не делает жизнь богаче и полнее, то вина не в самих брачных узах; вина в людях, которые ими соединены."

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"Брак — это Божественный обряд. Он был частью замысла Божия. когда Тот создавал человека. Это самая тесная и самая святая связь на земле."

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"Еще один секрет счастья в семейной жизни — это внимание друг к другу. Муж и жена должны постоянно оказывать друг другу знаки самого нежного внимания и любви. Счастье жизни составляется из отдельных минут, из маленьких, быстро забывающихся удовольствий от поцелуя, улыбки, доброго взгляда, сердечного комплимента и бесчисленных маленьких, но добрых мыслей и искренних чувств. Любви тоже нужен ее ежедневный хлеб."
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Без благословения Бога, без освящения Им брака, все поздравления и добрые пожелания друзей будут пустым звуком. Без Его ежедневного благословения семейной жизни даже самая нежная и истинная любовь не сумеет дать все, что нужно жаждущему сердцу. Без благословения Неба вся красота, радость, ценность семейной жизни может быть в любой момент разрушена. В устройстве дома должен принимать участие каждый член семьи, и самое полное семейное счастье может быть достигнуто, когда все честно выполняют свои обязанности.

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The words from this book were written by the Empress Alexandra Feodorovna Romanova in her diary. This book contains only the most beautiful words from her diary and if you want to read the English version of her whole diary you can find the diary online and the name of the book is "The Last Diary of Tsaritsa Alexandra".  Who is interested in Alix of Hesse (Alexandra the last Tsaritsa of Russia), her husband (Tsar Nicholas), and children (Olga, Tatiana, Maria, Anastasia, and Alexei), this book is a valuable link to their final days.
Romanov Family

Have a Blessed Marriage and Cherish Every Moment of it!!!
Much love
Liuba
xxx


37 comments:

  1. "Darite Lyubov"

    I love it. Dar in Spanish is 'to give' and I love when you see subtle similarties in languages and see the connections etc.

    Also 'Lyubov' is a cute word.

    Must learn love in every language for fun haha.

    I hope you're well Liuba you beautiful intelligent girly x

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    1. You are just so sweet!!! To give in Romanian would be "a da", but in this case "darite" would be "a darui" :)

      Lyubov is my first oficial name, but shortly is Liuba or Luba, so my name means "love" :) I love this word too.

      Thank you very much for your lovely comment. Wishing you a lovely evening! Liuba x

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    1. Thank you my smiley friend, thank you for all your sweet words. Liuba x

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  3. Glad you found a book you love! I'm sure you're husband is blessed to have a wife as kind and loving as you.

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    1. Beth, you are amazing!!! Thank you so much for your lovely, sweet words. May God bless you my dear friend! Liuba x

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  4. Pare foarte interesanta cartea, mereu putem sa invatam sa fim sotii mai bune!
    Sarcina usoara in continuare!

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    1. Multumesc foarte mult Luiza! Liuba x

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  5. Hi!! Cu siguranța ar trebui sa citesc aceasta carte pentru ca nu sti cand vine vremea sa ai nevoie de cateva cuvinte potrivite. Si cu siguranța m-ar interesa mai multe carti pe aceasta tema.
    Bine te-am regăsit!

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    1. Madeline, multumesc pentru vizita si ma bucur ca m-ai regasit :)

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  6. Sounds like you found a great book indeed

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  7. Thank you so much for sharing, Liuba! I pray that the Lord will bless you, your husband, and your precious bundle of joy that is on the way! <3

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    1. Ahh you my lovely girl, thank you very much!!! I love you, Liuba x

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  8. Wauw, it's great that you are working on your relationship with your husband. That book must be a really good help for you, but don't lose yourself in it. Try to be you :)

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    1. Monique, thank you very much for stopping by and for your advice :) Liuba x

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  9. O carte ineteresantă!
    Îți doresc o primăvară frumoasă,fericită și plină de bucurii,Liuba!
    Te îmbrățișez cu mare drag și mulțumesc de vizită!
    Te pupic dulce,suflet frumos!

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    1. Multumesc foarte frumos Elena! Liuba x

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  10. This is intriguing. I bet it's a good one.
    Have a nice weekend! :)

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    1. Wishing you a lovely week and thank you for stopping by. Liuba x

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  11. Thank you for sharing this, Liuba :) Even if the translations of google aren't very accurate, I was still able to understand the message of the fragments you shared. Indeed, these are wise words that every wife and husband should use as guide. From my own experience, there are a few things that matter the most in a marriage: continuously proving the other our love, working and bearing with them through thick and thin, being by their side no matter what and have a lot of patience on the long way we have chosen to take together.

    As you said, it's our duty to keep the marriage beautiful and this should be easy if efforts come equally from both sides:)

    Have a splendid blessed week, dear Liuba! :*

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    1. Thank you for this lovely comment, Izabela! I really enjoyed reading it. You are a wise girl and I loved all your tips you shared with me/us in the comment.

      Have a blessed week, my lovely friend! Liuba x

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  12. wow it is lovely and so impressive dear,such a beautiful name of this book and really thankful to you that you shared such beautiful lines with us god bless you have a wonderful day

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    1. Thank you very much for stopping by :) Liuba x

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  13. Seems a nice book :)
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  14. Wow thanks for sharing this book. I think I want to read it already :)

    Your blog is awesome! I saw it and thought if you would like to follow each other? Follow me and I'll follow back asap. Let me know what you think. I'd love to hear something from you! :)

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    1. Ceilo, thank you for your visit and I will check out your blog of course :) Liuba x

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  15. Weekend plăcut draga mea!
    Pupici și îmbrățișări!
    Mulțumesc de vizită!

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    1. Multumesc foarte frumos!!!Liuba x

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  16. Heeei, Burtica! :) ce faceti? Ia mai povesteste-ne ceva:)

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    1. Esti foarte adorabila si mereu iti este dor de noi si vrem sa iti multumim pentru aceasta :) Pupici de la noi! Liuba x

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  17. I think I can understand bits of the text in Russian. It's true that in the modern world we seem to have forgotten the old ways of righteousness, wisdom, patience and love!
    I do agree with the quote that marriage is a divine rite :)

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    1. Lubka, you are a wise woman!!! Liuba x

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  18. A lovely book, google translate is not brilliant but I understand the sentiment Lucy x

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    1. Lucy, Thank you for your visit. Liuba x

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  19. Te-am nominalizat pentru leapșa Liebster Award. Detalii aici:

    http://petalsofisabelle.blogspot.ro/2016/03/liebster-blog-award_18.html

    M-aș bucura să citesc răspunsurile tale. :)

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